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Financial & Spiritual Guide · Expanded Digital Edition

La Bicicleta Financiera

"Money has become the only priority for millions. It's time to return it to its true size."From Hugo's Introduction

For my father — my greatest client — who never stopped asking me to finish this book. And for Liliana, who has walked every mile of the road beside me.

This is an academic effort for reflection on personal and family financial sustainability — a method of means, not results. It does not replace a locally authorized financial advisor, and it is not medical or psychological treatment. Names and situations throughout are fictional, adapted from many years of workshops, to protect the confidentiality of real clients.

Chapter One

Introduction

A journal and pen on a wooden desk in early morning light
Written in the early mornings, before the rest of the house woke up

The reader of this book now holds in their hands a method called the Financial Bicycle Model. It will help reprogram your brain to promote optimal performance in managing money. The methodology is grounded in deep reflection on the issues faced by millions of people who constantly struggle to develop healthier economic behaviors. Every example in these pages is fictional, adapted, or modified from a wide range of experiences over many years — no specific names or situations are referenced, to protect the confidentiality of past or current clients.

Why not start the book with the model itself and get straight to the point? Because the reader will soon realize that, unlike many books on family finances, simply reading or applying a model without first modifying underlying habits is not effective. It requires reflection, and an understanding of the context in which we operate on autopilot. The model calls for a deep vision to lead the transformation it proposes. Its purpose is to help readers change their economic behaviors before a financial crisis forces them to. Applied consciously, it will allow you to lead your financial life with sustainability.

The Financial Bicycle Model is a vital tool for people who, consciously or unconsciously, believe they need to build capital — or for those already managing wealth who need to strengthen the economic foundation it stands on. It is also valuable for companies with ambitious social responsibility agendas seeking to elevate the financial sustainability of their employees and suppliers, for governments aiming to promote economic sustainability and entrepreneurship, and for financial advisors who wish to elevate their practice by focusing entirely on the holistic benefit of their clients. Several universities have taken an interest in the model to foster better practices among their students.

The financial world is, by nature, complex — and it causes widespread aversion among millions of people who avoid the topic altogether because it feels too dense, too taboo, or too personal. This often leads to conversations centered only on financial results, rather than on the optimal processes needed to achieve those results. The reality is: we're alone when it comes to money management. There is no simple, unbiased method in the market that helps people navigate the complexity of the financial world in a way that promotes sustainable financial health.

The final goal of this book is to help millions treat their financial glaucoma and reduce their financial anxiety — both terms explained in the pages ahead. The way to prevent these catastrophic financial conditions is to reprogram your economic culture and free yourself from economic conditioning — before life or destiny forces you to change through an unexpected crisis, or worse, through scarcity or poverty. Along the way, we will redefine poverty, wealth, and the middle class — a kind of alchemy toward our financial rebirth.

Money has become the only priority for millions. This is the result of a widespread collapse in values. We need to stop this trend and return to simplicity and the basics. This book offers a deep, root-level solution — a practical, simple, and powerful antidote to financial complexity, glaucoma, and anxiety.

"This book is a vaccine for financial freedom."

Why Did I Write This Book?

Everything you'll read in this book was written during very early mornings, late nights, vacations, or weekends — because I was blocked by internal fears. I wasn't able to become a full-time entrepreneur and lead my dreams with full energy and commitment. This book is part of that inner conflict, between the ambition to build this dream and the fear of losing a steady income for my family. I am a living example of a social entrepreneur working to build a business with high social impact, while still experiencing the struggles of an employee aiming for economic sustainability. You'll see that in this book, and in my social venture bifici.com, I apply the same recommendations I offer through the Financial Bicycle Model. I live, suffer, and manage the same challenges as many of my readers.

My academic journey began in 1997 as a finance professor at Universidad del Rosario in Colombia — my alma mater. Later, after working as an investment banker, I became a business development and commercial manager in Latin America for companies in the financial advisory sector, helping people become family financial planners. In 2004, I earned my MBA from INALDE Business School in Bogotá and was promoted to Sales Manager. That same year, I married Liliana, the most wonderful, beautiful, and solid woman to accompany me on this life's journey.

Seeking to expand my knowledge across industries, I accepted a position as a division manager at 3M Colombia. Years later, I realized my career decisions had been largely guided by my desire to ensure my family's financial sustainability. Although we still lived like a high-income family, something wasn't adding up in our finances. We moved to a different neighborhood and made several decisions to adjust to a new reality: we were a middle-class family.

In 2005, CEU San Pablo University in Spain invited me to teach "Multinational Corporations and Modern Leadership" in their MBA program, and in 2006 I also became a leadership professor at Universidad Sergio Arboleda in Bogotá. While preparing for my classes, I began to see how disconnected traditional leadership education was from reality. I proposed to Dean Pedro Carmona Stagna an innovative model: a real leadership scenario inside the classroom, challenging students to interview Latin American leaders in depth. Most students learned the key lesson: the limits of leadership exist mainly in our own minds. Some of my best students realized that none of the conventional definitions of leadership truly captured its essence — so we created our own: "the ability to create new sustainable realities."

I was still working at 3M when the global financial crisis of 2008 changed everything. I was laid off in a management restructure, and suddenly all the slides and theories I used to teach about sustainable family planning were just that — slides and theories. Fear kicked in, but so did a surge of adrenaline. To build a new sustainable reality for myself and my family, I launched multiple entrepreneurial projects. I learned new skills I never had the chance to develop in corporate life. I lost a lot of money and almost lost our apartment. My parents, brothers, cousins, and friends were a huge support — and my wife, simply invaluable. I confirmed I had made the right choice the night I proposed to her in that rotating restaurant in Bogotá.

Little by little, people who had attended my workshops began to spread the word. Brokers, clients, and friends started inviting me to lead financial sustainability workshops for their companies, provide investor trainings, and coach their financial advisor teams. It was striking to see how even individuals with significant wealth lived in a financial fog, lacking basic knowledge in fundamental economic matters — and those without capital to manage were simply surviving day to day without a method to begin building sustainable wealth. Each workshop was a shot of pure adrenaline. It was here that I coined the terms financial glaucoma and financial anxiety.

Since 2012, I have lived in Boca Raton, Florida, and temporarily paused my research and speaking engagements due to corporate responsibilities. But in pursuit of greater impact, I explored new ways to reach a global audience, and came to the same conclusion every time: I had to finish the book — this time, out of love for the dream. During this period, I came to understand how deeply our financial behaviors are connected to our leadership capacities, and to our brain. Money, as a material and often misunderstood manifestation of leadership skills. The brain, as the master control center — sometimes helpful, sometimes not.

This book is my contribution to society. It is a gift for anyone who sincerely wishes to improve their financial performance — for those who, like high-performance athletes, want to improve every day and master both their conscious and unconscious mind. It's for anyone who wants money to work for them, and not the other way around.

Chapter Two

The Problem

A foggy forest path disappearing into the distance
The fog that financial glaucoma hides behind

In over 200 personal finance workshops led across Latin America — from multinational companies to institutions promoting family finance — I've encountered thousands of people without a clear financial direction. Whether they have capital or not, most have no idea how to properly manage their resources. Fear sets in across the room when I ask a simple question.

"Who here knows exactly how much they'll receive when they retire?" Only those already retired, who know the value of their monthly pension check, raise their hands.

At the start of my workshops there is usually an atmosphere of unease. Participants expect the speaker to show up with a magic formula or financial product that will solve all their problems — something like a lottery ticket or a casino win. Others approach more cautiously, believing they don't need much help, perhaps because they've already accumulated some capital — but deep down, unsure whether it will be enough.

Regardless of how much capital one has, everyone must face what I consider the thirteen most relevant money problems.

1 — Not Understanding the Changing Environment

Years ago, stock markets showed steady long-term growth and careers were more stable. Couples divided roles, core family assets barely fluctuated in value, and access to information was exclusive — available only to those who could travel or study abroad. Personal finance planning was virtually nonexistent, mainly because the world felt predictable. Today, everything has changed — except for one thing: the financial passivity of the vast majority of the global population. This is the core symptom of what I call financial glaucoma: living in an economic reality that's completely disconnected from actual reality.

There's a story — perhaps mythical — that during the great Asian tsunami, thousands of animals survived because they sensed the danger early and fled toward higher ground. Some researchers say there's no scientific proof of this, but for the purpose of this academic effort, the myth holds value. So why haven't humans been able to sense the looming danger of putting money at the center of their lives, or worse, trying to manage it without any financial education? It's like driving a car with no training. The results can be catastrophic.

2 — Financial Glaucoma

In ophthalmology, glaucoma is a disease that, at first, causes no pain or noticeable symptoms — only a precise instrument measuring intraocular pressure can diagnose it, as it gradually damages the optic nerve and steals portions of vision until the eye loses all function. Often a person loses a large percentage of their vision without realizing it, because the other eye compensates. In other words, the brain itself hides the problem — the same mechanism that helps you regain balance when you're about to fall. Many people find it hard to visualize, in detail, how and where they will live, with whom, what their income will look like, what assets they will own — and because they don't think ahead, they are effectively diagnosed with financial glaucoma. The brain protects us with reassuring thoughts: "Everything will work out." "You work hard, you'll be fine." "Enjoy today; tomorrow will sort itself out." These are valid mental antidotes to financial anxiety — as long as they don't turn into lies.

While working as an advisor, I often met people who had just been laid off, clutching their severance checks. I remember Óscar, a 65-year-old who had worked thirty years at a multinational company. He came in with his wife, his children, and his own financial advisor, carrying a large severance check. His planned pension would only last 10 years — but he needed it to last 25. He also wanted to gift each of his children an apartment. Throughout the meeting, Óscar was unwilling to disclose his real monthly expenses; he just wanted a fixed income for 25 years to "cover everything." I asked if their health insurance was included in the budget he was reluctant to share — and that's when his wife pulled a folder from her bag and, trembling, revealed she had cancer, and Óscar had been diagnosed with advanced heart disease two months earlier.

Among their largest recurring expenses were country club dues, a vacation home, and a beachfront apartment for Óscar's mother-in-law. We explained that the only sustainable path was to cut expenses drastically, renegotiate his health insurance, and cancel the apartment gifts. Óscar, furious, suggested investing half his severance in booming Colombian stocks instead. I warned him: "That's no different from a night at the casino — and it's not suitable for your risk profile, or your health." They left angry. Even my own team was upset — we had just watched a massive commission walk out the door.

A few weeks later, Óscar called me directly — distressed. He'd lost 30% of his capital in Colombian stocks. We met over lunch and built a revised plan: restructured expenses, no apartment gifts, and Óscar working again, not just for income, but for a sense of purpose. Years later, Óscar had referred many new clients to me and become one of the most valuable clients I've ever had. We remain good friends to this day. Óscar had lived with financial glaucoma for over thirty years — a dangerous, unconscious defense mechanism of the mind, its way of reducing or avoiding financial anxiety.

3 — Being an Entrepreneur Feels Too Distant

A cement transport company once hired me to help their truck drivers improve their family finances. The session began with a lot of curiosity — and jokes — among the 40 drivers about what I could possibly teach them, given their salaries. We defined two objectives: how to build a budget, and how to earn more income. Many discovered, for the first time, where their money was actually going. For the second goal, we brainstormed: what kind of business can be started with little money? A year and a half later, the company invited me back. One driver had converted his garage into a store selling sewing supplies, run by his wife, after they sold two cows to start it. Another had built an avocado distribution business after meeting a farmer whose fruit was rotting unsold — he now had a permanent stand at the local market.

In a way, we all need to be entrepreneurs. Relying on a single salary blinds us to how powerful our market potential could be. What's missing is getting the brain into entrepreneurship mode 24/7 — taking calculated risks, adding dedication. Lacking an entrepreneurial mindset might be another symptom of financial glaucoma, especially for those with a more aggressive investor profile.

4 — Financial Ego

Financial ego is one of the most difficult challenges any advisor faces, entering a dance of seduction and conflict with the client's own ego. I once accompanied a colleague to visit a wealthy man from an entrepreneurial family who had just won a legal case and sold a large piece of land — he now held an enormous check, undecided between buying cattle, buying 35 livestock trucks, or investing with us. He was clear: if our offer didn't beat the others in profitability, he wouldn't invest with us at all. I shifted the conversation to risk — his entire fortune was concentrated in cattle farming, in one region. As expected, I walked out empty-handed. Months later, my colleague told me the deal had gone through after all: the client's mother, who remembered nearly losing everything in a flood decades earlier, convinced the board to diversify into an investment portfolio as a cushion.

You're unlikely to hear public stories about investors who lost everything chasing high returns. That siren's song — profitability — seduces and lures, but it is the investor's worst enemy. Even if you're a seasoned investor, the Bicycle Model offers a solid foundation to pursue returns without taking on unnecessary risk. Profitability is an important part of any financial plan — but it is not the goal.

5 — Work Alienation

As a leadership professor, I once asked my MBA students to define themselves on paper, without referencing their jobs. Ninety-nine percent found it nearly impossible — total work alienation. One student's answer nearly broke my heart: he wrote that his true calling was to become a priest, but financial reasons kept him from leaving his job, and he prayed God would give him the strength to pursue his vocation in his spare time. Defining ourselves by what we do can lead to the false belief that when we stop working, we lose our identity — and turns the transition to retirement into something dramatic.

I had a client — a lawyer at a major company — constantly stressed about his finances. He invited me trout fishing one day and revealed it was his true passion; during the trip his whole personality changed, from demanding and harsh to genuinely warm. He dreamed of moving to southern Patagonia to start a fishing and tourism business, and needed $250,000 to make it happen. Years later, I received a photo of him on his boat in the southern lakes with Asian clients fishing for Chilean trout. He had finally made his dream come true — earning more than he ever did as a corporate lawyer. It's clear that work alienation, when the job isn't one's true calling, stifles creativity and limits human development.

6 — Excessive (Dis)order in Administration

A client who managed her widowed mother's finances complained her returns weren't enough. At every meeting she pulled out a meticulously organized folder of every receipt — her mother's in blue, her own in green. One day, when the multinational brewery SABMiller acquired Bavaria and announced it would buy shares from thousands of small shareholders, the woman called me in a panic: her late father had hidden bearer shares somewhere in the apartment, and no one could remember where. We searched, found a bundle of certificates that had sat in the building's basement for years — and once counted against SABMiller's buyout price, the widow held the equivalent of $1.8 million.

In personal finance, it's not about tracking every expense to the penny. What matters is liquidity, multiple income streams, and having fallback resources. You should know your spending as much as possible, but not to the point that managing it becomes torture. If you focus only on meticulous order without creating productive assets, that too is a symptom of financial glaucoma.

7 — Capital Management

Once I gave a talk at a multinational company during a period of high market volatility — my job was to "calm the mood." A woman raised her hand to say our returns were too low, since her son — a stockbroker — told her we were "stealing" her money by comparing us to Forex, which yielded 35% a year. I explained Forex is a zero-sum speculation platform: when one person wins, another loses. A few months later, that Forex firm was shut down by regulators for illegally taking deposits, and hundreds of employees quietly redeposited their remaining savings into our portfolios. The same pattern shows up in every Ponzi scheme scandal, from DMG in Colombia to Bernie Madoff in the United States.

If you don't have a financial plan, the stress of managing capital will multiply, and your investment decisions will become riskier. Without the bicycle model, you're like a weather vane without direction. That's why many choose to bury their heads in the sand — to enjoy the false peace of financial glaucoma, a momentary escape from the anxiety of managing wealth.

8 — Being a Financial M&M (Month-to-Month)

Juan, 40, graduated twenty years ago. He bought a house in a gated community, drives a financed BMW, and his wife drives a financed SUV. They eat out every weekend, and Juan plays golf weekly. Yet when he looks in the mirror, he feels a knot in his stomach — they haven't started saving for their children's education. They use credit cards for nearly everything, carrying over $20,000 in debt, and sometimes even pay property taxes with a credit card. Juan has $18,000 in savings, which comforts him, though he has no idea how many months it would actually cover. He has no life insurance, high cholesterol, and doesn't exercise.

I met Juan at a workshop in Medellín. He was skeptical, challenging me on the returns I was "selling" — until he understood I was a financial coach, not a salesman. When he and his wife, Lucía, joined a coaching session and shared their spreadsheet, their financial dashboard was entirely red. Their fixed costs were 90% of their expenses. They would need to move to a cheaper neighborhood, sell a car, and have Lucía go back to work. The plan looked promising — but after those sessions, Juan never responded to my calls again. This happened with more than 30% of my clients in similar situations. Why do so many smart people resist solving basic financial problems?

The Financial M&M is the most critical state of financial glaucoma — it creates a disconnection between the brain and economic behavior. A perfect example is how Juan and Lucía deny having any financial problem at all.

9 — Not Knowing Your NIE (Implicit Enslaving Needs)

An explicit need is one we rationally know we require. Implicit Enslaving Needs — NIE — arise in the mind without the capacity to perceive them, hiding in work, relationships, and family roles; they are "enslaving" because if not recognized, they have deeply damaging long-term effects on our economic future. In Ibagué, a client asked me to give a talk to his family before showing them his household spreadsheet, almost entirely red because they lived off bank overdrafts. His wife, furious that he'd shown their finances to a stranger, walked out with the children. That was the fastest and most profitable piece of advice I've ever given — because a person like that cannot expect to change an entire family's economic culture like changing socks. A cultural change strategy has to be built first.

10 — Don't Let Money Become Psychological Leverage

Since childhood we learn to manipulate others around money — from how to get an ice cream, to convincing our parents to buy us a toy. As adults, some use financial power, or the lack of it, as a tool for dominance or submission in relationships. One client, married with children, insisted no communication ever go to her family apartment; she and her husband managed their finances completely separately. By chance, I later met her husband socially, who hinted he knew I managed "the pennies" for his wife — a woman who easily had over two million dollars. If you let yourself be psychologically manipulated around money, or do it to another, you deepen financial glaucoma and approach the moral limits of any human relationship.

11 — The Mistake of the "Fat Cows"

A great Venezuelan friend from university started a web management company that grew rapidly — within two years, a company of over 50 people. At his wedding, we all noticed the level of luxury. A decade later, cheaper overseas competition and mismanagement bankrupted him; he had spent all his capital on trips, parties, and credit-financed apartments and cars, and was left with nothing. Another pair of friends were wiped out when Venezuela closed food exports. The "fat cows" syndrome is very tempting: a tsunami of economic success arrives, and no matter how much is spent, the surplus feels greater still.

Personal finances are like a swimming pool full of water: a main pipe — income — and pipes that drain water — fixed and variable expenses. If inflow exceeds outflow, the pool rises and might overflow, so it must be enlarged (invested in growth), stored in tanks, or simply spent. In the worst case, comfort makes people careless about the pool walls, and tiles at the bottom crack unseen — water is lost through cracks no one is watching. Comprehensive financial advice looks past the tip of the iceberg — buying and selling assets — to the cause of wealth generation itself: cash flow, emergency funds, insurance, pension optimization, and only then, sustainable investment.

12 — Financial Self-Medication

A school friend, Jorge, a doctor, wanted to build an investment portfolio but his plan seemed permanently on pause. When I finally asked what was holding him back, he confessed: "I'm afraid — I don't trust the advisors who visit me. If I don't tell them the truth about everything that worries me, I won't get truly comprehensive advice." I told him his fear had protected him, because many people offer weak advice, or worse, self-medicate financially and pay dearly for it. I asked his wife a simple question: "In whose name is the house?" A deep silence fell. We had to build their map — goals, fears, ambitions — before setting a plan, the same way a general practitioner builds the foundation for any health plan before a specialist ever gets involved. Millions make financial decisions without truly comprehensive advice — that is, without a compass. A bad investment decision can leave a family homeless.

13 — The More I Earn, The More I'll Spend

Many postpone building capital, waiting for higher income to make up for lost time. What this belief ignores is that when income finally rises, so do temptations typical of that new level: "Now you need a car befitting a manager." "Finally, we'll go abroad, now that you're doing well." It's not that we should live full of restrictions — enjoyment matters — but it must happen in a planned way, negotiated with family, or it becomes a pressure cooker that seeks release irrationally.

Now, allow yourself an exercise: mark which mistakes you recognize in yourself.

#Mistake
1You find it difficult to perceive changes in the financial environment
2You find it difficult to visualize your economic future
3You find it difficult to control your financial ego
4You define yourself socially by your job position
5Your entrepreneurial attitude is limited
6You control your expenses excessively, without building productive assets
7Your assets do not satisfy your financial stability and income needs
8You live beyond your economic means
9You have implicit enslaving needs you haven't named
10You let money become psychological leverage in your relationships, or use it as such
11You are blinded by the "fat cows" syndrome
12You self-medicate financially instead of seeking comprehensive advice
13The more you earn, the more you spend

Fewer than 5 — nobody is perfect. Between 5 and 7 — you might suffer from financial glaucoma. More than 7 — you might suffer from financial anxiety. Whatever the count, this is essential reflection: many people believe they have everything "under control," but in reality, their monetary balance is too fragile — even with large capital.

Chapter Three

The Brain, the Great Culprit

A vintage anatomical illustration of the human brain
Neuroeconomics: where neurology, psychology, and economics meet

Why does all this happen? Why are we so irrational about economic matters? Because our brain holds us hostage through a basic and powerful survival mechanism. This function caused no problems when cavemen had not yet invented money — everything came down to territory, reproduction, and survival. Today, money and economic matters have become part of the abilities we must manage to survive.

Neuroeconomics, as defined by Jonathan Cohen of Yale University, "tries to connect three sciences: neurology, psychology, and economics" to better understand human economic decisions. When any of us makes an economic decision, we generally do not use the brain's full rational capacity — we act from emotional zones of a brain under economic stress. As researcher Camelia Kuhnen of the University of North Carolina has noted, when the part of the brain related to reward activates, a person becomes more prone to taking financial risks.

Because of this, we lose the capacity to reason and get carried away by emotional impulses dominated by fear or ambition — spending too much, living far beyond our means, assuming too much risk or none at all, or simply lacking the ability to save. From an early age we also learn from our families how economic decisions are made, whether from a rational, analyzed perspective, or a more emotional one, driven by impulse, pleasure, or fear.

Brain Chemistry

The problem isn't only that a brain is used to making financial decisions mostly from emotional zones — it's that brain chemistry itself can turn the pleasure of these decisions into a pattern, or in extreme cases, an addiction that is socially accepted. No one would call a person "addicted" simply for wearing tasteful clothes and driving a late-model car; today that reads as a symbol of "success." But deep down, that person could be addicted to the satisfaction those stimuli generate, if the decisions threaten their future economic stability. When we buy something we enjoy, dopamine — the neurotransmitter responsible for reward and emotion regulation — kicks in and makes us want to repeat the behavior.

We cannot live only in the present. We must be capable of using brain emotion to promote enjoyment while also seeing a healthy upward patrimonial evolution — a financial plan that includes real pleasures today, balanced with sound judgment and foresight for the future. If this balance is overly repressed, it can explode at any time and wipe out savings in a fit of pleasure, or reduce family enjoyment to a level so restrictive that everything feels scarce.

The Ostrich Effect

When we live with an economic imbalance long enough, we begin operating at an automatic, almost subconscious level — the same way we sometimes drive from one place to another without remembering how we got there. The inability to see a future that is right there in front of us is the very explanation of financial glaucoma, or, to illustrate it more graphically, the ostrich effect studied at Carnegie Mellon University by George Loewenstein: millions of people live with several of the thirteen money mistakes described earlier as a way to evade the reality of financial anxiety, continuing life paying debts and facing economic issues in ignorance — multiplying the risk of their decisions and the chances of ending up in deeper economic poverty.

Socially Accepted Addictions

One of my clients never traded his Honda for the Mercedes-Benz he had always wanted — not because he thought the Mercedes was a bad car, or because he lacked the money, but because that money was allocated to an emergency fund and his children's education. At a conscious, rational level, he canceled the emotional desire, and it made him feel satisfied — because a higher-level need in the rational domain overruled a lower-level need in the brain's emotional domain. That benefit, the education of his children, will be transcendent throughout his life — it will give him far more satisfaction than a hundred Mercedes-Benz cars ever could.

You don't have to be addicted to casino gambling to be addicted to profitability or money. Just living consistently beyond your economic capacity, or committing any of the thirteen money mistakes, already puts someone in a group taking their economic life toward low sustainability. The worst part is that many who live beyond their means, regardless of how much capital they have, are tricked by their own brain into believing capital will magically solve their future needs — a mirage the brain creates so they can "live today." This "capital-future" disconnection is another unconscious antidote for financial anxiety, and the challenge becomes: how do we gradually lead people, without extra anxiety, to raise their level of future sustainability?

Juan and Lucía, from the previous chapter, are living with several implicit enslaving needs and cannot process other information because their brains lack the electrical habits that would let them repeat more rational behaviors. They don't have a tool like a thermometer or a speedometer to tell them how they're doing financially. Our proposal is the bicycle model — because it will help people gradually improve, while still enjoying life.

Chapter Four

The Iceberg — Foundation of the Bicycle Model

A massive iceberg floating in the ocean, most of its mass hidden beneath the surface
Only the tip is visible — the mass that matters is beneath the water

Is it possible to change economic behavior after a single financial advisory session, or an entertaining training? Do you learn to ride a bicycle in a seminar, or by watching a video? The answer to both is no. To program behaviors, you must first visualize them, then understand the theory, and then practice repeatedly with the help of a coach who guides you. An iceberg has the majority of its mass below the surface — the visible part above water is much smaller than what lies beneath. This analogy perfectly explains the depth of the bicycle model. It isn't just about understanding the parts of a bicycle, but the concepts and criteria that form your capacity hidden behind the model — beneath the water.

Most people don't believe they need to change anything about their economic behaviors. So, either a deep vision of what the bicycle model can do is required, or unfortunately, they end up changing through crisis — the most effective teacher of all, and sadly the one most people rely on, with huge aftereffects on themselves and their families.

Capacity 1 — Social Self-Definition

Who is really taking practical care of the middle class? Who had a personal finance workshop in school? It is not all about Gross Domestic Product viewed from corporate cocktails — the dialogue must come down to the individual level, to a simple model: the bicycle model. To move past aspiration, I developed new, precise definitions of the economic-social classes.

Rich: someone who can consistently cover their fixed monthly costs without needing to work — what we call "autopilot." Under this definition, a farmer who rents out land and covers expenses, a widow living on a pension, or an investor living off capital income all immediately qualify as rich. Poor: someone who cannot cover their monthly expenses and must rely on debt, government support, or help from others — this includes people in luxury apartments who depend entirely on someone else to maintain that lifestyle. Middle class: someone who could become rich by building a strategy of income-generating assets that cover their fixed costs — through saving, minimizing fixed expenses, increasing income, or a combination of the three.

I've also identified three emotional postures within the middle class. The New Middle Class comes from poor neighborhoods, still remembers unmet basic needs, and feels the satisfaction of progress — an "I can" mindset that is a sign of hope, provided consumerism doesn't quietly pull them back toward the definition of poor. The Proud Middle Class has a long history of hard work, values the price-value balance over status symbols, and often grows wealthy without ever thinking of themselves as anything but middle class — which is precisely why their wealth grows in a sustained, exponential way. The Resentful Middle Class was born into wealth, or believed it was wealthy, and cannot maintain that standard of living as adults; financial glaucoma is the dominant mental state here, projecting success through debt and inherited luxury goods even while, quietly, becoming poor.

Capacity 2 — Having

Millions of people unconsciously live trying to project an image of wealth they don't actually possess, and for that reason never change. In my financial reflection sessions, I foster deep analysis of what success means, and what money means, for each individual — asking people to define themselves, and success, without any material bias. Life took me, after the financial sector, into several years in retail, where I met wonderful entrepreneurs in the hardware business — powerful distributors of pipes, abrasives, and nails managing significant wealth that grows solidly precisely because of the balance between business growth and family consumption. For them, having things was a consequence of their essence, not a goal in itself.

Capacity 3 — Fear and Ambition

Fear is an excellent motivator of human behavior. Ambition is the root of all economic and social progress. In economic terms, fear can be associated with risk, and ambition with return — but these are static definitions; they don't drive change on their own. I use the "Five Whys" method, a quality tool developed by Toyota, to reach the root of a fear. Juan fears not being able to provide a quality education for his children. Why? Because his current expenses won't allow it. Why can't he reduce them? Because he's unwilling to lower his standard of living. Why not? Because he values today's comforts more than tomorrow's plan. Why? Because he's trapped in a lifestyle misaligned with his own stated priorities — which suggests he suffers from high financial anxiety. Ambitions, once we find their root, should not be vague dreams; they must be specific, detailed, and actionable.

Capacity 4 — Values, Beliefs, and Paradigms
UnsustainableSustainable
ValueWell-being todayWell-being today and tomorrow
Belief"I deserve the best.""I deserve enough."
Paradigm"Enjoy now, we'll figure it out later.""I must balance spending today with future well-being."

Only you, in the depths of your own being — in your inner dialogues — can define the values, beliefs, and paradigms that shape your behavior. They are not rigid; they can be altered by events like family conflict, illness, job loss, or a shift in worldview. It's not all about saving and nothing else. Remember: it's about balance, like riding a bicycle — enjoying today while planning for a sustainable tomorrow.

Capacity 5 — Experience, Example, and Foresight

When I started my professional career, many of us used our first paychecks to buy a car on credit. My friend Abel didn't — he focused on saving, coordinating rides, and taking the bus. Years later, he bought a used car and paid it in full. While most of us finished grad school with debt, Abel, still living with his parents, had saved enough to pursue a master's degree at one of the best universities in the United States. I ran into him years later at an airport — Abel was a top executive at a multinational investment fund. Neither path was wrong. Some chose more immediate pleasures, at a real financial cost; Abel delayed gratification and gained significantly. What matters is avoiding financial anxiety, whichever path we choose.

Capacity 6 — A Unified Future Vision

These concepts are closest to the surface of the iceberg — they support both wheels of our bicycle. It is very important to visualize how you want to live in the future: where, doing what, feeling how, at what standard of living, and how you will meet your needs. In my workshops, it's surprising how few people have a clear vision of their future — and even fewer share it with their partners. This is one of the causes of financial anxiety: going forward without knowing where you're headed. That's why we recommend couples build their bicycle model together, before marriage, before creating that lifelong partnership called family.

"Living in competition is living in the denial of love." — Humberto Maturana, Chilean biologist

Let's stop unconsciously competing like peacocks, showing off the external. Let's make what we own, and what we show, reflect a deliberate and sustainable inner balance — not one rooted in fear or excessive ambition. You can build the perfect bicycle model, but if your fundamentals — your implicit needs, your conditioning, your values — are not aligned, your bicycle will soon become useless, its wheels sinking into the water instead of moving you forward.

Chapter Five

The Front Wheel

An entrepreneur sketching plans, focused and determined
Balance and direction — before there can be traction

The power of the bicycle model lies in aligning everything beneath the waterline with two main competencies: an agile, determined front wheel, and a strong, robust rear wheel — each supported by its own set of skills, the spokes of the wheel. Years ago I met with a high-net-worth prospect who told me not to talk further unless I could show him products yielding over 100% annual returns. Rather than argue, I let him talk, using the Socratic method, until he broke down the real reason behind his demand: structural financial problems that were forcing him to "need" outsized returns to compensate for poor past decisions. Developing the front wheel means converting first-level enslaving needs into third-level, rational ones — it is a method to reduce financial glaucoma.

1 — Balance and Attention to the Environment

The front wheel's most important function is keeping the bicycle balanced and pointed in a direction. In economic terms, it helps you stay in — or rise out of — the middle class. Another key competency is understanding your environment: what's happening in your profession, your industry, and the regulations affecting your portfolio's return, without becoming paranoid about it.

2 — Defining Objectives

You wouldn't ride a bicycle without a destination. Many people have vague aspirations rather than prioritized objectives — a problem, because it implies life is governed by chance rather than decision. A prioritized list of SMART goals — Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-oriented — is a vaccine against financial anxiety. Setting too many, or too few, is harmful: objectives must be challenging but grounded in the rear wheel's real traction capacity, or the whole bicycle becomes impossible to steer.

3 — Controlling Addictive Behaviors

Overspending, overconsumption, or risk addiction are like cracks in a swimming pool — a few can be repaired, too many mean the whole foundation must be redone. If these patterns are out of control, use NLP anchors — mental cues that disrupt automatic behavior: a sticker on your credit card as a reminder, asking a family member to review purchases before an impulsive one, using cash in labeled envelopes, automating savings into an account without a debit card, disabling overdraft. If extreme frugality is the pattern instead, schedule a monthly family treat — a balanced bicycle lets you spend without guilt, once the plan is in place.

4 — Understanding Your Life Cycle

Each stage of life comes with its own financial priorities. In the preparation stage, income is negative and the focus is education. In social development, we build a household and social network, often acquiring a first significant asset. In economic development, income should grow steadily along the career. In economic maturity, retirement approaches rapidly, financial anxiety tends to rise, and glaucoma tends to lift. In economic enjoyment — not "retirement," which implies stopping everything — fixed costs are covered by pension or business income, and finally there's time to do things. The trap is behaving as if time hasn't passed — acting like you're still in preparation while you're already in economic maturity.

5 — Leadership

This isn't a leadership book, but leadership is at the heart of any financial plan — the ability to inspire a family toward a shared vision, and to carry out the plans behind it. As Steve Jobs put it: "We don't hire smart people to tell them what to do. We hire smart people so they can tell us what to do." If you lead and inspire your family, they'll bring brilliant ideas to the table — investment opportunities, cost optimization, new income sources. Money shouldn't be a source of family division, but a vehicle for harmony and shared purpose.

6 — Conflict Management

Because most families never discuss a shared financial vision, when the topic finally comes up it can trigger conflict — especially if the foundation, the base of the iceberg, isn't solid. Underneath, we often find a struggle with delayed gratification. At Stanford, Walter Mischel's famous marshmallow experiment left children alone with one marshmallow, promising two if they waited. Years later, those who waited showed better life outcomes across the board. You and your family may act like the children who waited, or the ones who didn't. A useful formula: your Future State equals your Present State multiplied by your Vision, raised to the power of your capacity for Delayed Gratification. No amount of capital will ever be enough if spending is out of control — a study by the National Endowment for Financial Education found that 70% of U.S. lottery winners lose everything within a few years.

7 — Employability

I once met a man in a workshop who had just learned he'd be let go in three months, after 25 years managing accounts and collections for a textile company. He confessed he saw very limited options — until we sat down and explored what he'd actually spent 25 years building: deep relationships across the entire distributor network. Three months later, he had adjusted his fixed costs to stretch his severance for a year, and launched a collection-services business for textile companies. Today he has fifteen clients and has hired a coordinator and a lawyer. You have worth beyond your current job title — maybe the timing hasn't felt right, or maybe you just haven't been in tune with your own potential yet.

8 — Networking, Your Contact Network

Social and economic relationships can't be left to chance. Build your Plan 100: a list of the 100 key contacts for your professional and personal development, tracking their contact frequency and method — a yearly email, a twice-a-year call, a monthly lunch. This is not the same as manipulation; it's a well-managed network that helps you navigate a job loss, a business change, or a new venture, built starting with the people you've already shared your life with.

9 — Your Investor Profile

Your profile evolves with your life stage, your income, your capital, and — most importantly — your stress level. Broadly, there are conservative, moderate, and aggressive profiles. Many people believe they're moderate or aggressive investors — until the market crashes, and they panic, sell everything, and lose more than if they'd been honest with themselves from the start. Ask: how did I react in past financial crises? What's my real tolerance for watching my portfolio drop 20%? Am I investing for the long term, or do I need short-term access?

10 — Investment and Entrepreneurship

Investing is not the same as saving — saving preserves value, investing grows it. Not all investment is financial: investing in yourself, your family, your education, or your health can be the most profitable decision of all. An investment is not "good" just because it went up in value — it's good if it aligns with your plan, is well understood, and fits your overall strategy. Don't invest in something you don't understand, even if others are profiting from it.

Entrepreneurship is a disease — a constant state of dissatisfaction with the current situation, whether in society, in the market, or with oneself. An entrepreneur is an aggressive investor who can spot opportunity no matter how obvious it may be, and turn a vision into a business reality, in a way that makes the risk, from their own perspective, acceptable. Well-managed entrepreneurship gives your bicycle extra balance — provided, of course, your profile allows for it. With strong entrepreneurial development, your financial bicycle becomes one with two rear wheels: greater power to grow your wealth and reach your goals.

Chapter Six

The Rear Wheel

Close view of a bicycle's rear gears and chain, built for traction
Traction — the power that actually moves the bicycle forward

With only a front wheel, you will never reach a destination — nobody gets on a bicycle just to keep their balance without pedaling. The rear wheel is the traction your bicycle needs to actually achieve your goals. Unlike the front wheel's more introspective skills, each rear-wheel skill is tied to something concrete you can measure.

Financial Health

Financial health is not an enormous capital growing endlessly without direction — it's the balance between your ability to generate and spend money, now and in the future, and how your wealth is aligned with that balance. Being financially healthy means feeling that you're on the right path, so your internal conversations about money become less distressing. Financial health is the speedometer of your bicycle — a combined score built from how many of your goals are on track, what share of your income you can save, how much of your spending is truly variable, and whether you know your future retirement income. Under 30% means you need real effort. Between 30% and 60% means you're doing something right. Over 60% means a good trend, and over 80% means you're doing very well.

Clarity in the List of Assets

List your assets from most liquid — cash, marketable investments — to least liquid, like an old vehicle or a lot with no road access, and know how many months of fixed costs you could finance if your income stopped tomorrow; on average, families need between 6 and 18 months. In one workshop, a client told me he could retire that year, counting on income from an entrepreneurial project: buying ten taxis. When we ran the real numbers together, including a manager, maintenance, and cash-handling costs, the projected return was far lower than he'd assumed. We agreed he'd start with two taxis and reassess after a year. Five years later, he had grown a full fleet, covering his family's expenses and, harder than before, doing work he loved.

Cash Flow — Fixed and Variable Costs

Your fixed costs determine your current quality of life — where you live, the car you drive, your children's school. Your variable costs are the ones you can choose not to incur without anything drastic happening to your lifestyle. The health of your rear wheel is not just its ability to generate cash flow — you could have strong cash flow and still put it all at risk by mismanaging your net worth. Both must be combined into one honest picture: how much is left over each month after every expense, and where your assets truly stand once debts are subtracted.

As a benchmark: a final net cash flow under 15% is inefficient, between 15% and 35% is average, and over 35% is optimal. On debt: owning less than 50% of your net worth free and clear (excluding your primary residence) is unsustainable, 50% is average, and over 80% is an ideal position — unless the debt is financing a business generating income, in which case the context changes entirely. These are warning indicators, like cholesterol levels — they don't mean something is "wrong," but that it's time to make changes.

Improving the Matrix

If you want to fix a lack of net worth growth, the simplest solution is to reduce monthly expenses — but of course, it isn't easy; it might mean a less expensive neighborhood, different tastes, a longer commute. Two moves tend to move the needle the most: stop using debt to cover fixed or variable expenses, and redirect any savings capacity toward paying down debt first. The fewer interest payments you make, the better your net worth's return — which frees up money that increases your savings capacity, which improves your cash flow percentage, moving you from red to yellow, and eventually to green.

Recommendation: review or update your bicycle model every three months, regardless of your net worth. This is often a cultural shift for a family, not just a technical exercise — so it works best done step by step, together, and revisited quarterly like a proactive check-up, rather than a reaction to a crisis.

Chapter Seven

Money and Marriage

A couple holding hands, watching a beautiful sunset together
Building the map together, before building the life

A U.S. study published by American Express found that only 43% of newlyweds discussed finances before getting married, and 91% of couples admitted to finding reasons to avoid money conversations altogether; 30% said finances actively cause problems in their relationship. This is no secret: money is a challenge in human relationships. When it's kept in silence — wrapped in secrecy, greed, or simple neglect — it becomes even more damaging. Without building a shared operating system of values, habits, and paradigms grounded in the hope of a future together, it's nearly impossible for the visible results at the top of the iceberg to be healthy for the couple's finances.

There is no magic formula — but avoiding the truth in financial matters usually means love is not being lived to its fullest. The real challenge is finding financial balance within happiness. If you have substantial capital, work as a team — pilot and co-pilot — to make the best decisions. If you're living a month-to-month lifestyle, take moments to pause, watch a sunset, appreciate daily wonders, and avoid letting anxiety fuel conflict at home. Money should never be allowed to kill love — it simply isn't worth that much.

For parents: your children are watching, absorbing every example with a capacity far greater than any computer. They record everything, including financial arguments. Use the model to invite them into the process — let them contribute ideas and help preserve household harmony. As income grows, temptations will inevitably grow too. But love is stronger — love for an optimal future, for progress, for the joy of having reached financial balance in time.

"Don't let money destroy your marriage." — @hugshere

Chapter Eight

Falling in Love with Yourself

A quiet mountain vista at dawn, mist settling in the valley
The level of consciousness as closeness to God

In society there are extremes — people like Juan and Lucía, or like my Aunt Lelita, who from her youth dedicated her life to The Little Sisters of the Poor, caring for elderly people without resources or family. I was struck by the sad, distant look in many residents' eyes. Over meals we served together, I would ask some of them how they ended up there. Many said: "I never thought this would happen to me — I had success, life smiled at me…" My aunt would quietly add: "Some danced away their last cent. At least they're safe here now."

In surveys I've run during conferences, I've found a consistent pattern: those focused mainly on having often show low levels of economic sustainability — they always need more. Those focused on transcending tend to need less, engage more deeply with others, and achieve greater success in their personal and social goals. A transcendent focus acts like a magnet for economic sustainability. My aunt told me of times when the home had no meat for the elderly — and then, unexpectedly, a bull would wander into the garage, as if sent by fate.

This doesn't mean we must reject money or good experiences — it's about avoiding the trap of accumulation for appearance's sake. True wealth lies in building a role in society, a dream, and the ability to inspire others toward a shared reality. Today, you can drive a new car off the lot with no money down. Luxury and status are addictive experiences, not just for their utility, but for what they signal socially. The balance lies in how much value we place on material things versus how much we value ourselves, regardless of trends or status. Self-love is the fuel for seeing your life in perspective — helping you balance today's consumption with tomorrow's sustainability. And remember: the only resource without a price tag is time. Give it to those who need it most.

Conclusion

If you've read this far, it's a strong sign your financial ego is already on its way to being tamed — those with an oversized financial ego usually think they don't need a book like this one. From here forward, ignorance, financial passivity, or financial glaucoma are no longer valid excuses. The path is to identify your enslaving implicit needs, your economic conditioning, and the psychological "therapy" you practice — or that others practice on you — while examining your own trilogy of values, beliefs, and paradigms. This is how you build a personal socio-economic self-definition that doesn't trap you in financial anxiety, but instead drives you to create sustainable realities. If possible, power your journey with a second rear wheel called entrepreneurship, if your investor profile allows it. Even if you can't increase alternative income right away, side activities create room to explore new business ideas, career changes, or ventures.

Managing your finances with this model means relearning — much like when you first learned to ride a real bicycle. The key is to identify your fears and ambitions so your plan stays aligned with a transcendent definition of self — one that allows you to create an inspiring, motivating economic vision that balances present enjoyment with future security. Not everything has to be for the future — use the bicycle model as a negotiation tool within your family, so you can all enjoy today while planning wisely for tomorrow.

A Checklist to Start Your Journey

Ten steps, in order, whenever you're ready to put the model into motion:

1Commit to riding your bicycle. Decide if you truly want to put the model into motion, starting with the Iceberg levels.
2Assess your financial health. Take an honest, realistic starting measurement.
3Define your financial goals. Include your pension gap — ask your provider for an estimate.
4List your assets and debts. A detailed breakdown of everything you own and owe.
5Build your cash flow. Track every income source and every expense.
6Align goals with capabilities. Make sure your objectives are realistic for your resources today.
7Identify improvement levers. How you'll increase income, reduce costs, or gain efficiency.
8Create and execute your plan. Set milestones, and take action.
9Review your investments. Performance, risk, and diversification.
10Seek support and accountability. Quarterly coaching or mentoring keeps the plan alive.

You have several paths from here: do it yourself, with this book as your guide; or work with an online coach through bifici.com. Either way, the key is to identify your fears and ambitions so your plan stays aligned with who you truly are — allowing you to create an inspiring vision that balances today's enjoyment with tomorrow's security. And if you ever need help, you know where to find us.

An open road leading toward sunlit hills at sunrise
The Road Ahead
"The only resource without a price tag is time. Give it to those who need it most — and watch how the universe responds."
From "Falling in Love with Yourself"

La Bicicleta Financiera grew out of two decades of workshops across Latin America and the United States — a way of handing every reader the same compass Hugo hands his clients: not a promise of wealth, but a way to finally see clearly.

Financial Glaucoma Living in an economic reality that is completely disconnected from actual reality — a condition the brain hides from us, the same way it hides the blind spot growing in an eye with untreated glaucoma.
A traditional town in Colombia's Coffee Region, Salento, Quindío
About the Author

Hugo Infante Acero

Hugo is a successful executive in the financial sector in Latin America (investment banking, personal finance, and stockbroker), who has been undergoing profound transformations. Seeking greater alignment with his purpose, he left the financial world and became an executive in the industrial sector, which led him to live with his family in South Florida. Since 2003, long before social media, his friends and former clients — distributors — called him to continue his lectures on how the brain impacts investment decisions: neuroeconomics.

Hugo managed to balance his corporate, family, social, and volunteer duties, finding time to launch this book, based on which he facilitates workshops to help families plan their personal finances. He became certified in the rigorous Six Sigma quality standard as a black belt in innovation, product development, and business processes in the United States, and later earned a diploma in financial planning methodology for families from Florida Atlantic University. He has helped entrepreneurs navigate the difficult path of convincing angel investors to invest in their fledgling business ideas, and continues to support select angel investors evaluating promising projects in Colombia and South Florida.

Hugo discovered that there was a recurring obstacle in the realization of projects: the mental, psychological, and spiritual aspect, which remained a block for many people, including himself. So he immersed himself in self-awareness courses and personal development workshops in the mountains of Colombia, as well as stress reduction and contemplative prayer practices. He feels a strong attraction to the ancestral culture of Colombia's indigenous peoples and is a scholar of the Catholic faith, and several Saturdays a year he holds a workshop where he guides potential entrepreneurs in expanding their future businesses from a solid foundation — the level of consciousness as closeness to God.

Hugo firmly believes that those who are thirsty read. La Bicicleta Financiera is his way of sharing two decades of lessons learned at kitchen tables, in boardrooms, and in workshops with cement truck drivers and CEOs alike — giving thanks to God for the blessings received along the way.

If this stirred something in you, there's a quiet door open — a conversation, whenever you're ready.